Pnderings in your head

So you've read the books, you've watched some dvd's, and its got you interested. So now you think that your going to start experimenting, you wait for the kids and wife to go to bed and fall asleep, or when they have gone out.

When you are alone you start to experiment and experience what you might like, but at the back of your mind, you are scared that your going to get caught out one way or another. But still its not quite what you want, because you are doing it to yourself, so now you think surly i can go some where and get the true experience i'm craving for, and don't have to worry about being caught.

Then the internet comes into your head, and you surf, looking at the different websites and checking out what services there might be, and maybe one stands out from another. Now you've got to pluck up the courage to phone her and make the appointment.

If She's a good Mistress and you've arrived at your appointment on time, She should put you at ease, tell you the safe words. Once that is done, and once the doors are opened to her dungeon, you will experience the true meaning of BDSM, and find out if this is really for you.

Madam Ursula

PS I am available all this week and next to book your appointment, ring Me 07833 332369 or look at

My website

New Year New Blog just for My boys

Hello to all My readers, I know its a little late, but I do hope you all have a better year than last. Lets be honest some of us probably are not sorry to see 2009 gone. I had an interesting day today that made Me happy, I had a client who thoroughly enjoys cock and ball torture and nipple torture and if you know Me, I love nipple and cock and ball torture. I love to see a man squirming and groaning with pain and pleasure, and to spice it up a little there was also electrics. So if your reading this and love the same as I do get in contact with Me (07833 332369) or if there's some thing else you enjoy and I haven't mentioned it before get in touch also. I don't bite unless I'm begged.

While I'm at it there is a play party on February 6th @ 8pm till late at My dungeon, so come alone and phone for more details. Its a good chance to come and sample the delights of My dungeon in a friendly no hurry relaxing atmosphere. Are though daring enough to come to the play night, when there will be other Mistresses ans a Master present?. So whether Domme/Dom/sub/bottom/slave or just curious get in touch to find out more. If you are female (not tv, cd or tg) I will make you an offer of free admission on mention of My blogs.

Madam Ursula http://www.ourkinkyplace.com

Cock and ball torture My favourite

There's nothing better than for a client/submissive, who is willing to give his cock and balls to My hands. He looks at Me with his great big eyes hoping I will be lenient with him, just to make him feel at ease. Oh how little he knows Me, but by the end of the session he will know Me a lot better than he did before.

After strapping him to the cross securely so the little victim doesn't go any where, I tie his cock and balls up, making sure that they are divided equally. I start off by rubbing them, but little does he realise what evil thoughts are going through My mind. I feel his body relax as I'm rubbing and just when he thinks he can relax, SLAP SLAP and by god do they bounce and does he moan. I say to him your awake then. I start to crop his balls, and rubbing his cock, and wobetide him if he dibble's on My gloved hand, I will make him lick off any dribbles, and then find the meanest, evillest and nastiest clip, then clip his foreskin together so it won't dribble again on My gloved hand. I then proceed to put more clips all over his cock, until I can't get any more on due to lack of soft skin. Then I start slapping it with all the clips on, which makes him go on tip toes and scream like hell, I tell him for every bit of pleasure he has to pay with pain, which pleases Me immensely. I then place a vibrator on the clips, which vibrates all the clips, and rub his balls with the other hand, talking softly into his ear, while he still squirms, I don't know why?.

I then decide to crop the pegs off one by one, when finished I can see My handy work nice little red marks all over his cock.

If you want a session like this and find out what I whisper, then make an appointment.

I am next available on Wednesday 6th of January 2010, and all the rest of the week.

Madam Ursula

Humiliation and cbt today

This guy likes to watched by strangers, so I organised a couple of My girl friends to turn up, they are not in the scene. To watch Me work on him with great pleasure, I made him dance in front of My friends, shaking every thing he had which made him very excited, and My girl friends laugh.

I made him lick My boots, I made him kneel in front of the girls and kiss there hands, the more I humiliated him the more he enjoyed it, until the cbt took the smile off his face.

I made sure I used My estim on him, which if you don't know what that is, its a electric box non mains that sends electrical pulses and shocks out (better than a tens). Placing the pads one on the tip of his cock the other between his balls ans arse, sungly on the gland behind his balls. I turned the dials slowly up, that made him jump up and down depending on the dial setting.

I will be in the dungeon all week, so if you want a session ring Me 07833 332369.

Madam Ursula

PS At some point early in the new year, I have accepted a challenge from some one who calls herself the wife. This will take place at the Manchester dungeon (http://www.themanchesterdungeon.com) All interested in this keep watching the this blog

Play Party

Well I wonder how many of you keep an eye on My blog postings. It would be good to get more comments.

How ever tomorrow night that is Saturday 28th from 8pm till late, I am going to be having a play party at the dungeon. So why treat yourself and partner/Mistress/Master to a night out. Sort out your glad rags and join Me and the other Mistresses and Masters for some interesting fun and games.

So whether you are a Mistress, Master, tv, cd, slave, submissive or any thing else in between you are more than welcome To attend and take part.

Ps there are still a few places left for the slaves inter active party.

Madam Ursula 07833 332369

Severe Bondage

My client today wanted severe bondage, so of course I was more than willing, with a large grin on My face to bring his fantasy to life. I used nothing more than rope, I started off securing his fore arms behind his back tightly. Which made his chest pull out tightly at the front, really exposing his nipples . I then tied his wrists together, making sure I wasn't nipping the shin, nerves or circulation. Bringing the rope around his wrists to the rope securing his for arms.

With My help I made him kneel down in front of Me, and then I had him lay on the floor. With more rope I tied his thighs together, and his ankles, which were then pulled so as his ankles were touching his thighs/buttocks. With him now secure he had little movement, I rolled him on his side which was a difficult task as he wasn't a small man, I teased his nipples until I thought it was time for My Chinese cane nipple claps. Vibrating them, which drove him crazy, with pain and extasy, I told him it wasn't enough. So I put pegs on them as well for good measure, and then used a vibrator on them again, while twisting the cane clamps round and round. I was taking it in turns with his nipples and his cock and balls at the same time with the vibrator. I left him alone to contemplate his situation, after a while I cam back, took the pegs and clamps off his nipples. Which made him winch a little LOL, I rubbed them better, that made Me extremely pleased with the way he was perfoming. It was soon the end of his session.

One for Thoughts

This one for thoughts, as you all have noticed, I am a BBW which means Big Beautiful Woman and mature. It doesn't mean I am past My sell by date, I enjoy this life stile imemsley, and the clients enjoy some times under protest what I do. I know My looks and size does not always please everyone, but they know what to expect when they visit, as they have seen My photograph.

As you may have read on My blog posting at Our Kinky Place, I am having one of My interactive parties on the 4th of December. Details of how to book you very limited place are on My website http://www.madamursula.com

I will be available all next week from 10am till 7pm last booking. 07833 332369

your Madam

Madam Ursula